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Sticky rice 2026
September 25 - 27 | 2026What to ExpectA high-energy, celebratory, and uninhibited weekend in the desert. Sticky Rice is designed specifically for gay Asian bears and their admirers to fully let loose, connect, and be themselves—through body-positive pool parties, a warm community vibe, and a space where you can entirely belong.
✦ THE PANDA OASISHosted at Casa Oliver, a stunning private estate hidden in the heart of Warm Sands. Think swimming oasis under the hot desert sun, and maximum privacy to let loose.
✦ NO APPS REQUIREDSkip the shallow digital noise. This is a warm, welcoming space built for big laughs, real chemistry, and making genuine friends who actually get it.
✦ CELEBRATE THE THICKNESSLeave the body standards behind. This is a clothing-optional, judgment-free zone dedicated to radical self-love and appreciating thick, unapologetic Asian bodies.
✦ PURE FREEDOMA naturally playful, sexually liberated vibe with zero pressure. Flirt the afternoon away, lounge poolside, and let the weekend flow exactly at your own pace.
Day OneUnpack & Talk Story
The wait is officially over. Toss your bags in the room and head straight out back to the pool. Day one is all about enjoying the pool, getting a drink in your hand, and meeting some cute new friends. Come introduce yourself to the crew.
Check-In12:00 – 5:00pm
pool party12:00 - 5:00pm
group photo5:00pm
dinner break5:30 - 7:00pm
red envelope icebreaker7:00 - 8:00pm
spa night8:00 - 8:30pm
Tool shed outing8:30 - Late
icebreaker1:00 - 1:30pm
rice bowl icebreaker3:00 - 3:30p
Late night ramen10:00 - 10:30pm
Day TwoFull Spreads & Basslines
Saturday is the main event. Shake off last night, grab your trunks, and get out back. We’ve got Santo on the decks setting the vibe, the music moving, and the pool deck full all day long. Come out, find a spot with the crew, and let’s get into it.
Check-In12:00 – 5:00pm
Pool party ft. santo12:00 - 5:00pm
diy hwachae bar1:00 - 1:30pm
bingo1:30 - 2:30pm
group photo5:00pm
Dinner Break5:00pm - 7:00pm
Speed friending7:00 - 8:00pm
Tea Social8:15 - 9:15pm
Late Night ramen10:00 - 10:30pm
Day ThreeOne Last Scoop
No big schedule blocks, no tight timeline. Just an easy Sunday morning to recap the best laughs of the weekend. Say your goodbyes to everyone poolside and have a safe trip home. See you next year!
group photo12:00pm
Loverboy sundays12:00 - 5:00pm
goodbyes5:00pm
the details-
No tickets here, but we do run on a $25 suggested donation to cover the weekend’s overhead and planning. That helps us buy supplies for everyone. You can toss it our way via Venmo/Zelle before you hit the desert, or poolside when you arrive. Cash discouraged.
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We will have some non-alcoholic drinks, snacks, and basic refreshments on hand, but Sticky Rice is generally a BYOB-friendly space. If you have a specific spirit, a favorite craft beer, or something special you want to share with the group, please feel free to toss it in the kitchen fridge!
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Honestly? A lot of lounging. We aren't a packed festival or a heavily scheduled retreat. Think of it as a long weekend at a friend's pool house. There will be some bigger events like a poolside DJ, some casual icebreakers, and plenty of snacks, but you are 100% free to just sleep in, read a book on the deck, and do your own thing.
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Completely relaxed. Sticky Rice is designed to be an unpretentious backyard sanctuary for gay Asian bears and their admirers. Think of it as a long, easy weekend at a friend's pool house. A welcoming, grounded space built for guys of all builds to hang out, share snacks, and catch the desert sun. We’re all about great company, casual afternoons by the pool, and amazing experiences.
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September in Palm Springs is beautiful but still can be very hot, so pack smart. Your essentials are SPF sunscreen, polarized sunglasses, and a reliable pair of slippers. Bring loose, breathable fabrics like linen or light cotton for outdoors, plus a light hoodie or long-sleeve layer just in case.